As we consider our return, we feel a bit nostalgic about some of the things we have enjoyed here in the USA. Of course, IN Mozambique we don’t miss these things a whole lot, because it is just part of our life. But people do ask us what we miss, so I thought you’d find our partial list interesting. Items with an * denote things we can get but are too expensive for us to purchase.
-Public parks and playgrounds, anywhere with a soft clean green lawn! Also forests with shady paths for quiet walks.
-“Things to do” with the kids, like museums, zoos, science centers, etc. We don’t have a movie theater in Nampula.
-Being able to step outside my house and not be stared at. This goes also for shopping, going to church, or pretty much anything I do in public in Nampula. It gets tiring, especially for the kids.
-Being able to shop in peace without being hyper-vigilant about my purse, phone or wallet, and without street kids pulling on my sleeve and telling me they are hungry.
-Being able to go out in public in car without worrying about running over children in the streets, having thieves try to open my car doors (while I am in the car), children “drawing” on my car with rocks, having to make sure every door is secured every time in I get in or out, or bumping into large potholes.
-I will miss not having employees. I don’t like having employees, but having 24/7 guards is a necessity, and having someone to help in the house is pretty necessary (the amount of housework, laundry, food shopping and cooking from scratch is enough to keep any woman busy 12 hours a day). Often our employees are very pleasant, but it takes a huge chunk of our salary and we must deal with their schedules, personal problems, and family needs.
-A clean public swimming pool – our local pool ranges from barely acceptable to “eeeeek!”
-Wearing trousers and shorts (for Cami) and worrying about always being properly dressed. It is important to Mozambicans.
-Always understanding what people say – sometimes people make jokes and we can’t understand what they mean (in Portuguese). People there do not speak directly about what they want, and we must often guess at the point they are trying to make.
-Understanding what is going on around us – sometimes we just have to shrug our shoulders when we see a guy in a Santa hat riding around on a motorcycle. There is some joke, but we don’t get it! We miss cultural cues sometimes and aren’t sure how to behave.
-Being able to take little road trips to see friends (gas is just too expensive).
-Eating out or getting take out – we do this sometimes, but it is very expensive and options are limited. We’ll miss Mexican, Italian, and Chinese food.
-Things like Redbox, Netflix, and cable tv. We are often left with nothing interesting to watch and must wait for a package to arrive with some new options. This goes for books too. We get all our news from the internet, and we’ll miss the speed of American internet.
-Wearing nice shoes – most of the places we walk are not paved and the gravel, sand and dirt ruin Cami’s leather shoes.
-Being with our families for holidays.
-Seeing our kids interact with our families, especially their grandparents. This is the saddest one.
-The freedom of living in America and knowing you are a citizen, with the rights thereof.
-Ability to shop for things you want, fairly conveniently. Internet shopping with quick shipping, thrift stores and big stores with lots of choices are simply not available. To plan for birthdays and Christmas, we must start 4 months in advance at least if we want something shipped out.
And here’s a list of the foods we’ll miss!!
Oreos*, Wheat Thins, any kind of snack cracker, Chocolate Chip cookies, Doritos*, and goodies!
New York Style Pizza
Cheese* (we eat this once or twice a month)
Parmesan cheese and pepperoni (people send this out to us in packages though!)
Salad dressings
Chicken breasts, ready to cook*
Bacon and lunch meat*
Yogurt*
Fresh milk
Broccoli and various other veggies, some we can’t get and some we can’t afford because they are shipped in from South Africa
Watermelon, which we can get rarely, and is always expensive
Strawberries and blueberries, cantelope
Peaches and pears*
Ravioli and nice pasta
Spaghetti sauce
Tostitos and jarred salsa!
All kinds of fast foods!
I could go on and on about the food. Pretty much any kind of convenience food is unavailable, and the ice cream is awful. But we do get lovely tropical fruits (in season) and can buy most of the basics we want. Specialty items like sesame oil or particular spices are not available, and we bring them or ask someone to ship them. We manage just fine, and the main problem is the cost of food (which is about the same as here, but our budget is smaller there) and having to cook everything from scratch. Items don’t go on sale, so most food shopping involves quite a few stops, at the places where things are the least expensive.
Then of course there is the guilt factor – so many people in Moz are hungry or malnourished. We try to eat a simple diet, but it really is difficult to live on cornmeal and beans, and we don’t believe that God requires that of us. We try to strike a balance between health, frugality, and tasty food, and are usually content with the occasional splurge!
I think the thing we will miss most about America is the choices. I find myself spending a lot of time wandering up and down the aisles of various stores here in the USA looking at all the things I could take back with me. Storage bins, pretty bottles or smelly candles, picture frames and nice lamps. We don’t have those things there and must work to create them or live without them. It is not VERY hard to live without them, and living a simple lifestyle is, I believe, better for us in the long run. But when one wants to buy, say, a white short-sleeved blouse, it can be very hard to locate one that is good quality without any stains on it. Or a gift for someone can be quite challenging. I know that life in America is no piece of cake, and that life in Mozambique is not an unrelenting cycle of suffering – I hope no one believes that we are saying this. But there are things we will have to do without, and we ask that you pray that we will do without them cheerfully and with joy.
Pray that we will laugh when we must ration the water, when the electricity goes out, when cell phone service is out for several days in a row, and the internet goes off and on. That we will find something else to do in our minds when we are waiting endlessly for a meeting to start or a service to finish, that we will joke and laugh with those around us instead of becoming irritated when they give us the run-around or don’t understand what we are asking of them. That we will eat our rice and beans cheerfully, enjoy the blessings of living in Africa, and impart joy to our children, teaching them how to share Christ’s love with the poor, the smelly, the unlovable, and the rich, snobby and mean. They are out there in every country and we pray that you will love them too. Thanks for your prayers and we’ll keep you posted! – C